Weddings don't just celebrate the union of two crazy kids in love -- they also blend some sticky etiquette questions into the mix. For instance, will your guests be expecting dinner and drinks? Here's how to get the message across without stirring up too much fuss.
'I now pronounce you fed' —
Weddings don't just celebrate the union of two crazy kids in love -- they also blend some sticky etiquette questions into the mix. For instance, will your guests be expecting dinner and drinks? Here's how to get the message across without stirring up too much fuss.
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If it's just going to be a cocktail reception with drinks and passed appetizers, say "cocktail reception," "cocktails and hors d'oeuvres" or "cake and punch to follow" or use similar language on wedding invitation inserts so guests aren't just hanging around waiting for a seated dinner that will never come.
'I now pronounce you fed' —
If it's just going to be a cocktail reception with drinks and passed appetizers, say "cocktail reception," "cocktails and hors d'oeuvres" or "cake and punch to follow" or use similar language on wedding invitation inserts so guests aren't just hanging around waiting for a seated dinner that will never come.
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The cutting of the cake or presentation of desserts is the usual point at which guests know they can make a polite exit. If dinner isn't being served, try to wrap everything up by 8 p.m. so guests can make alternate plans.
'I now pronounce you fed' —
The cutting of the cake or presentation of desserts is the usual point at which guests know they can make a polite exit. If dinner isn't being served, try to wrap everything up by 8 p.m. so guests can make alternate plans.
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Consider deputizing wedding party or family members to convey the message if there is a special theme or structure to the food. In a traditional New Orleans wedding, there is no sit down meal -- the heavy passed apps and small plates stations ARE the dinner and guests shouldn't miss them
'I now pronounce you fed' —
Consider deputizing wedding party or family members to convey the message if there is a special theme or structure to the food. In a traditional New Orleans wedding, there is no sit down meal -- the heavy passed apps and small plates stations ARE the dinner and guests shouldn't miss them
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A clambake on the beach sounds great, right? It helps to let the guests know if there's a limited theme menu just in case they have allergies or aversions. They may care to eat beforehand or make plans afterward.
'I now pronounce you fed' —
A clambake on the beach sounds great, right? It helps to let the guests know if there's a limited theme menu just in case they have allergies or aversions. They may care to eat beforehand or make plans afterward.
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Barbecue weddings are hugely popular, especially in the South. Again, just make sure to let guests know so they can perhaps avoid wearing their most stain-attracting silk. Consider offering a meat-free option as well for your vegetarian guests.
'I now pronounce you fed' —
Barbecue weddings are hugely popular, especially in the South. Again, just make sure to let guests know so they can perhaps avoid wearing their most stain-attracting silk. Consider offering a meat-free option as well for your vegetarian guests.
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Cash bar or dry wedding? Get your trusty wedding party or family members to discreetly spread the word so people know to bring cash (or possibly a flask).
'I now pronounce you fed' —
Cash bar or dry wedding? Get your trusty wedding party or family members to discreetly spread the word so people know to bring cash (or possibly a flask).
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